Hello everyone, this is Refried. I am listening to an awesome discussion at Theology Beer Camp. They are talking about codependence and enmeshment.  I have a problem with this because my mom has made me responsible for her life and feelings for my whole life. It is a tragedy of abuse that all people allowed and depended on themselves. Hmm that is interesting.  I wonder if anyone has ever studied other people's dependence on someone's dependence. Anyway, I do not know why it wasn't prevented and stopped but I did end up having a lot of blessings and am happy with my life overall. 

This discussion about having to manage someone else's feelings is really great. I mean that is it.  

So anyway I am doing okay but have had digestion issues this weekend. I think it is from the iron pills, low iron, and haphazard medicine schedule.  

A doctor helped me and she thinks it is GERD.  She is my health buddy because we both have heartburn and compression socks. I agree that the stomach acid is a factor and I ate mint chocolate chip ice cream last night which is a no no food.

I walked to Starbucks and had to call the cops about something.  The operator tried to make me sound like a Karen on the phone but I was doing the right thing.

I think I might eat some more apple jacks soon. I wish I could eat a piece of pizza. I ate some fruit snacks earlier. I think I will lose a pound from this incident.

Thanks, hospital pals, have a good weekend.