Ok everyone. I went downstairs to tell them I was going to pet therapy anyway and they were nice to me. They gave me two plates and a ginger ale. And the grievances person told me to go to pet therapy after all. And I told them my lesson about behaviorism. Which I believe I am right about. Did I explain that in the following post. I do not know. But the idea is that there are bigger picture habits that also deserve reward and you don't want to counteract that system with excessive targeting of specific incidents that you attach too much symbolism to.